“If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones.” Luke 16:10a NLT
Don’t let the title of this post confuse you. I don’t have a new formula for weight loss that’s connected to the task of potty training your child…
Yes, I know there are many weight loss fads out there… But, believe me, this is not one of them.
What I have found, however, is a connection between the two that I thought might be of some encouragement to you all.
Potty training was once described to me by another mom I met as “one of the hardest things” she’d ever done. And while it may seem like an exaggerated statement, it’s amazing how many things in life that we can view that way…
I know when it came to the idea of potty training, I could only imagine how difficult it would be.
And so……What did I do?
I. PUT. IT. OFF.
While it was encouraging to know that other moms agreed that boys often take longer to learn to go potty than girls, at a certain point I realized….
It was finally time to stop putting off this responsibility and actually begin intentionally working on it with my son.
“Stay home with your son for three days straight, work on it intensely, and it will be a done deal.”
It’s a strategy that’s worked for many moms and one I’ve heard from some of my amazing mom friends that I respect and admire.
Um…. But there was just one problem…
I’m not the kind of mom who “can” stay at home three days straight and work on it.
I like to go to the gym and run errands most days. It’s just not in my nature to hunker down three days back-to-back for potty training “boot camp”.
So, then… What’s a mom like me to do?
Hm…. I needed a different approach.
Although we may not always hear an audible voice of God telling us what to do, you want to know something… He does speak to our hearts if we’re listening.
And what I felt He was saying to me was this…
“Just begin working on it when you can. Work on it when you ARE home.” (Basically, “do the possible”.)
Hmmmm….. That I could do!
With this approach, I didn’t have to rearrange my life to mimic someone else’s success story in potty training. I could simply do what was possible for me!
And, you know what! That’s the case with many things in life as well.
Yes, at first glance many things may seem like they will be “the hardest things we’ve ever done.” The tasks ahead seem so BIG and daunting…
And yet, I believe all that the Lord wants from us is a willing heart and for us to simply do what IS POSSIBLE.
Around 2007, I weighed close to 160 pounds…. And oh… how I hate looking at pictures of myself from that time.
But you know, what? I didn’t stay that way.
Because I decided to take the small steps toward seeing change in my life…
I chose to do the possible.
And guess what… I was able to lose about 40 of those pounds by my wedding in 2010. (Maybe, at some point I’ll share a blog post with before and after photos, but not today…You’ll just have to keep reading the blog and stay tuned for that..)
Did the weight drop off suddenly?
It was a process. But little steps led to bigger ones.
I simply started by running around the house for exercise and eating healthier.
Over time, I added in more exericse, and then finally joined a gym where I was able to get some advice and a helpful plan from a trainer.
Yes, it took time and effort to drop the weight I wanted to lose, but little by little the pounds came off.
God gave me the will power and a path for success. Success fed on itself, and seeing my transformation and my dreams become a reality propelled me to continue on.
Oh… We all want the end results. We want our kids to be able to go potty independently, and we would all love to be the best version of ourselves that we know is possible.
But it all has to start somewhere.
No, you don’t have to copy someone else’s path to success…although sometimes, those paths can be of help.
You simply need to have the willingness to say “yes” to the vision God gives you and do what is possible for you day by day.
Will it take time? Yes.
Will it require more intention and dedication? Yes and yes.
But if the change you desire means that much to you… You will take the necessary steps- however small they may be- to achieve the goals and dreams you want to reach.
Yes, friends…. “The hardest things in life” really are possible to achieve.
And it’s following God’s leading, taking those small steps, and remaining faithful in the process that is the best place to begin.